Ok now I am extremely frustrated and a little hurt :( Before I begin this story I must say the thought of this happening has crossed my mind a time or two but I didnt think it would bother me so much as it really has. Also I am not saying to much imfo about people involved mainly because I dont want to hurt anyones feelings in return.
Today Kylan was invited to a little halloween party coming up and Lundyn was not. Now I understand that she isnt always going to be able to do alot of things Ky does but I was really shocked at the way the person delivering the invite acted, first she was like we would really like it if Ky could come and here is the card and all the imfo.
Me: Oh OK that sounds fun.
Anonymous: Now we didnt invite Lundyn because of her condition, (now I know it sounds harmless but the body language and everything combined made it seem like she was afraid to even say Lundyns name) like she would catch something from it.
So I seriously almost burst into tears. I know its probably not as big of a deal as I am making it one but I really felt so bad. And since Ky and Lund dont go to the same school its bound to happen.. Right? Different friends and all, But this is someone who knows both of them and usually people will invite both and give me the option to come along with her... which I have done or sometimes I just take Lund and do something else fun, so really I dont know if I would have sent them both but just the way everything happened really HURT my feelings.
Before any of you need to ask Yes I am still sending Ky because after all why shouldnt she get to go right? So I am planning on doing something very fun with my other two....
But I just thought I would post since I was super frustrated with the situation, I just wish sometimes people wouldn't be so weird about her sometimes....
But who am I to judge maybe they just dont know how or what to say.... I mean I dont know how I would if I didnt have a child with disabilities. Ok now I am done and feel alot better after letting this all out :)
And yes I also know I may be overreacting just a tad!